(My response is at the bottom)
DR. LISA'S RESPONSES:
This is a common question (and feeling) regarding special education services for many parents. The difference here is the refusal to move forward with obtaining help for your child. It's not fair to your child and there are many professionals at his school who can help. Gather all of your questions and ask them to guide you through this process. If you continue to refuse special education services for your child, then your child is the one who suffers. I hope that this answers your question, and good luck!
OF NOTE: The comments that reference hearing this type of question, repeatedly, are from educators, FYI.